Brand New From Olivier Bessaignet

New Book Reveals:

3 Intimacy Secrets

After Baby 

...Even if you’re separated,

or your partner is reluctant.

Olivier Bessaignet

Dear parent with young kids, 

If you’d like to experience greater love, partnership, and satisfying intimacy post baby, this will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

I'll show you why in a minute.

But first, a warning.

Before we go any further, I want to make something abundantly clear:

This isn’t for people who can't help complaining all day long and are not willing to do the inner work.

Here’s the deal.

The method outlined in the book is working amazingly well in my marriage, for hundreds of my coaching clients, and I believe it can help you, too.

But I only coach people who are determined to work on themselves, and who value self-reflection.

This method is like learning a new language: it requires to be approached with an open mind, and to commit to practice, practice, practice.

Also, we do not provide any mental health treatment.

This isn't suitable for individuals who suffer from mental illnesses and have received mental health diagnoses, such as schizophrenia, bi-polar disorder, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, major or chronic depression, and such. Or people who have addictions with hard drugs or alcohol. I do not diagnose, treat or cure any mental illness or complex relationship issues. Please seek professional mental health treatment.

With that said… let me jump right in and show you…

Exactly what you’re getting.

First of all, this is dramatically different from anything you've ever read because there’s no fluff or filler - just straight to the point applicable concepts and practical exercises.

Plus, it’s easy to read.

At 58 pages, you can read it in an afternoon, or listen to the audio version in your car in 1 hour.

And you’ll immediately “get” the entire method I personally practice every day, and that has allowed my coaching clients to drastically improve their intimate life.

They've experienced profound transformations, either reigniting the passion in their existing relationships, or bravely leaving toxic ones behind to discover love anew with partners who truly complement them.

In both scenarios, they've unearthed a newfound strength, more in tune with their inner truth, and have overcome past traumas or self-defeating patterns.

In essence, they're now living the fulfilling and empowering intimate life they always dreamed of.

Don’t get me wrong — My priority is for parents to stay together. However, a 'successful' relationship isn't just about clinging together come what may. Sometimes, separating is the bravest move you can make. What matters most? Clarity. Growth. Empowerment. Sovereignty.

And yes, some damn good, soul-shaking intimacy, emotional and physical.


This book is about MORE than just intimacy.

You’re about to embark on a journey of profound self-discovery and spiritual opening.

A lot of religious dogmas reject the body, and tend to demonize sexual expression as “non spiritual.”

However, if you sense a profound stirring deep within, hinting that there should be more, trust that feeling – you’re absolutely on the right track!

In fact, your body is the vessel to higher levels of consciousness.

Turning inward and exploring intimacy with yourself and with your partner can be one of the most powerful paths to spiritual awakening.

Also, there’s nothing more satisfying than feeling a deep sense of belonging with your intimate partner and your little one(s).

Picture this. When I wake up every morning, I feel the warm body of my spouse on my right, and I’m holding my 3 year old son in my right arm. I instantly feel a profound sense of belonging and trust, and that I’m deeply loved, and valued.

Any sense of loneliness and anxiety vanish immediately. My nervous system is at rest and I feel fulfilled in my purpose. I think to myself, “Yes, this is exactly where I’m supposed to be!” ravishing in a deep bath of oxytocin and feel-good hormones.

But it hasn't always been this way. I've navigated through a series of challenging, stressful, and ultimately unfulfilling relationships, each culminating in heart-wrenching breakups.

Being a “relationship and personal transformation expert” didn’t prevent me either from fallouts in my marriage and going to couples therapy.

And after 20 years of research, personal therapy, and coaching hundreds of clients, here’s what I’ve learned.

There is a myth that Intimacy is to be found. Some people are lucky to have found the perfect partner, and the rest of us are doomed to live a life of loneliness and dissatisfaction.

This couldn't be further from the truth.

The art of intimacy is a learnable skill.

Who expects to become a doctor, a financial advisor, a lawyer, a concert pianist, or a corporate executive without any proper training?

It takes years, even decades to refine one’s art of excellency.

Yet, people expect to be good at relationships and Intimacy (both emotional and sexual) without any training or coaching.

The good news is, it doesn’t require 8 or 12 years to refine the art of intimacy in your own home. A few weeks can put you on the right track to sustainable harmony with your partner.

And this book will give you the roadmap to that success.

Here's just a fraction of what's inside and what it might mean for you:

Secret #1 for Emotional Intimacy

Maybe you crave real, deep communication and emotional intimacy.

Maybe you want to talk about more than just bills, schedules, and what's for dinner.

And you want soul-nourishing conversations where you're both fully engaged and present. (See page 15.)

You'll learn...

  • The one and only prompt you’ll ever need to consistently foster Emotional Intimacy in any relationship.

    It can work with your partner, as well as with your friends and family members, even if they tends to be emotionally shut down. (See page 18.)

  • How to express heavy emotions such as sadness, anger, resentment, and frustration safely without provoking defensiveness, so you can be heard, received, and validated.

    You'll get a crystal clear understanding of this on page 20.

  • Say goodbye to never ending fights. Learn how to be heard and understood, and come back to loving connection quickly.

  • The one learnable skill that can give you the superpower to dissolve arguments quickly and foster emotional intimacy sustainably. (See page 25.)

  • A simple 14 day practice to make sure you receive empathy and validation from your partner, even if they’re reluctant or emotionally shutdown. (See page 18.)

  • After getting married, spouses should NEVER talk about their attraction for other people, right?


    One of the most juicy and most connecting topics with my wife is when we share transparently about our crushes on other people.

    However there is a wrong way to do it (that can hurt the bond of the relationship) and a right way to do it (that can create more intimacy and connection).

Secret #2 for Reclaiming Who You Are At Your Core

Unfortunately, it's also in the nature of intimacy to bring to the surface our deepest fears and shadow beliefs.

Past childhood wounds can unconsciously hunt your present relationships and sabotage them.

Which is why you'll also discover…

  • The truth about why we may tend to (unconsciously) attract the wrong person, over and over again, and what to do to stop doing so. (See page 31.)

  • What is an unconscious vibrational key? And why it may affect your love life without you ever knowing. (See page 32.)

  • How you may have been trained unknowingly to accept and tolerate even mild codependent or abusive behaviors. (See page 34.)

  • The main reason why it may be hard for you to assert your boundaries.

  • The best methods to finally dissolve shadow beliefs that may be holding you back from reaching your full potential for intimacy.

* Again, note that this book is not suitable for people who are suffering from complex mental illnesses and trauma issues. We do not claim to diagnose, treat or cure any mental health or complex relationship issues.

Secret #3 for Amazing Physical Intimacy

Say goodbye to numbness and dissatisfaction. Learn the ancient secrets of the art of sacred sexuality and lovemaking.

You will learn...

  • 2 powerful little-known sexual practices to unlock your full potential for mind-blowing pleasure.

  • Why mainstream sex doesn’t work in long term relationships. (See page 37.)

  • What to do if you feel frustrated in bed. (See page 41.)

  • What to do if your partner comes before you. (See page 43.)

  • What to do if the man stays soft.

  • What is the practice of Valley Orgasm? (Want to bet? See page 39.)

  • 7 key factors why you may stay dissatisfied (See page 41).

  • My secret as a man to never come too soon. (See page 43.)

  • The 6 game-changing intentions for Conscious Love Making. (See page 45.)

  • 3 powerful little-known massage techniques to naturally reduce numbness and open new neural pathways for ecstasy. (See page 50.)

    This is your birthright, you’re already wired for this!

  • How to dissolve performance anxieties.

Maybe you’re asking yourself:

  • How long does women orgasm last vs men?

  • Can a man ever last longer than a woman? (See page 38.)

  • How many orgasms can a woman experience during one love-making session?

  • What’s the fundamental difference between Tantric sex and BDSM? (See page 46.)

You're right, that may be more than just 3 secrets...

Yet, you're also getting...

The Audiobook Version you can “download” all this game-changing information into your brain in less than 60 min.

If you really want to say goodbye to loneliness, disconnection, and dissatisfaction, you could start listening to the audiobook literally right now and know the 3 secrets in the next 60 minutes.

That’s literally today! No more waiting or guessing what to do.

You’ll get the full roadmap for successful intimate relationships, and for satisfying emotional and physical intimacy.

You're also getting...

A 55 min On-Demand Video Class

...with the author to go deeper into the main concepts of the book.

Some people like to read words on a page, others prefer listening to audio on the go, and others (like me) learn best by watching videos.

Whatever works best for you, we got you covered!

Here's What To Do Next

The "cost" of this book is $5, and you get it instantly as a downloadable version so you can read it on your phone or your tablet.

Why $5? And why downloadable?

Well, I used to mail out physical copies. Print cost at $19.23 per paper copy, and postage and padded envelope cost $5.67 for a total of $24.90.

And it takes 3 weeks on average for your book to arrive at your doorstep.

I figured you'd prefer to get the book immediately, rather than having to wait 3 weeks.

So rather than charging $24.90 for a 3 week wait, we charge $5 for an instant download.

As soon as you place your order today, you'll be sent an email receipt with the download link where you can get it.

From there you can download the book and read it. Or simply listen to the audiobook right away.

You can access your book anywhere, instantly, without having to wait for the post office to get it to you!

Oh, and in case you're wondering …

There's No Catch

I know there are so ads out there that promise cheap stuff and deliver nothing. And I regret people get scammed because it arms legitimate businesses like us.

Our #1 priority is our client satisfaction.

We're genuinely here to help.

Which is why you're also protected by...

Our Ironclad Guarantee

I 100% Guarantee you'll love this book and the video training or I'll return your $5 and let you keep the book and the video training anyway.

Just shoot us an email and we'll give you back your $5 with no questions asked.

How's that for fair?

With that said, there is ONE thing to keep in mind:

Time Is Of The Essence

Here's why.

I take a loss by selling you this book at this price.

The reason why is because it costs me $33.04 in advertising costs to sell one book.

So why would I do that?


I want to create a great impression on you so that one day you might want to enroll in our Mentoring Program.

Yes, we have other products and services that you might be interested in.

I’m hedging my bets that you’ll enjoy the book so much, you’ll ask to try other trainings and services I offer. Pretty straight forward really.

Oh - one more thing.

You’re also getting for no additional charge a series of...

Fascinating Interviews with Love Experts

  • “Detox from the Patriarchy! 301 Tip-Offs to Spot Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in Action” a 60 min interview with expert Nicky Dyal.

  • “Surrender Into The Feminine? What Does It Mean?” with Olivier & Jordan Bessaignet

  • “What is Sacred Spot Massage? From Anorgasmic to Female Ejaculation…” with Olivier & Jordan Bessaignet

  • "Mastering Empathy" with Katrina Vaillancourt

This Is Truly A Limited Offer So Claim Your Copy Now Before This Promotion Is Over

Option 1: Digital Version


  • 80% Discount

  • Immediate PDF Download

  • Bonus 1: Audiobook Version

  • Bonus 2: 55 min On-Demand Class

  • Bonus 3: "Detox from the Patriarchy! 301 Tip-Offs to Spot Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in Action"

  • Bonus 4: "Surrender Into The Feminine? What Does It Mean?"

  • Bonus 5: "What is Sacred Spot Massage? From Anorgasmic to Female Ejaculation…"

  • Bonus 6: "Mastering Empathy"

  • Bonus 7: "Healthy Sexuality: How To Keep A Long-Term Relationship Alive And Juicy!"

Option 2: Hard Copy


  • 3 Week Shipping

  • Immediate PDF Download

  • Bonus 1: Audiobook Version

  • Bonus 2: 55 min On-Demand Class

  • Bonus 3: "Detox from the Patriarchy! 301 Tip-Offs to Spot Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in Action"

  • Bonus 4: "Surrender Into The Feminine? What Does It Mean?"

  • Bonus 5: "What is Sacred Spot Massage? From Anorgasmic to Female Ejaculation…"

  • Bonus 6: "Mastering Empathy"

  • Bonus 7: “Healthy Sexuality: How To Keep A Long-Term Relationship Alive And Juicy!”

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter and I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Olivier Bessaignet

P.S. In case you're one of those people (like me) who just skip to the end of the letter, here's the deal:

I'm giving you a 58 page book that outlines our exact method to say goodbye to relationship dissatisfaction and cultivate amazing emotional & physical intimacy.

All you pay is a measly $5.

(That's a 80% discount compared to a physical paper copy that would cost $24.90 and would take 3 weeks to arrive.)

***** I'm also giving you the audiobook version so you can learn our method in just 1 hour while on the go.

You also get a series of fascinating interviews with love experts.

This is a very limited offer because I'm running a promotion test. If I'm not able to at least break even on my advertising costs, then I'll put this offer down.

There is no "catch" to this offer. You will not be signing up for any "trial" to some monthly program or anything like that.

In fact, if you don't like the book let me know and I'll even give you back your $5.

Click here and claim your copy now. You won't regret it.

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